Let's face it, you are concerned.

Concerned you are getting the cold shoulder from your wife!

Concerned your home life is not what it should be!

Concerned the excitement is gone from your marriage!

Concerned your marriage may be teetering on the brink of divorce!

My husband and I have been there.  Many of my clients have been there.

It's painful and destructive and it does not have to happen to you.

Having a wife that is unhappy and a relationship that is crumbling  is worse than having a throbbing toothache or getting kicked in the groin by a hooded mugger.  

When your days away from your wife turn into nights away from the family because you can't stand the thought of another fight or misunderstanding; this isn't the life you should be having! 

When you find solace in the corner bar or by working late or by spending more time at the gym....even though you have worked out 7 times already this week and it is only Wednesday; you know you need to change your life and increase the happiness quotient of your marriage.

 Before Stephen, 42 years old, decided to turn his marriage and life around he was very unhappy.  When he first came to me his marriage was in shambles and about to fall apart.  He said to me, "I'm tired of doing things on my own.  I 'm tired of having to make excuses about why my wife doesn't want to do things with me.  I'm tired of showing up stag but being a married man."  

Bill told me that his wife was sleeping in the other bedroom and she told him that if he didn't learn to understand her needs she would move out of the house entirely.

Sam's wife kept telling him he didn't listen. Sam felt the same way about her. 

Tony's wife kept demanding more romance.  "Our life together is boring and all you think about is business.  I want more in my life."

Ron said he liked to be the head of the household and it made him feel good to be able to make all the decisions and to help his wife solve her problems.  Ron's wife thought that some of that was fine, but she didn't need him to solve her problems for him.  Somehow he knew they needed to find a compromise.

Many of these men were worried about what a divorce would cost - not just financially but emotionally as well.  How would it affect their children and their lifestyle.

These men have now found the key to marital happiness.  Through counselling and working on their relationships in a focused way, they have now added years to their happily married state.  That can also happen to you.

Your relationship has changed for the worst....or maybe just slid a bit downhill.  Maybe things aren't the way they used to be when you were dating. You can remember how she looked at you with so much love in her eyes.  When she spoke it was all about you.  She couldn't wait to introduce you to her friends.  She wanted to be with you all the time.   

Now you wonder what went  wrong. 

I will show how to recapture the rapture of love, that emotional energy, that feeling of well being and invigorating expectancy in your relationship! 

As a Marriage Counsellor, a Reality Therapist and an Adult Educator I have worked with couples who are in trouble and were looking for ways to save their marriage.  I have also worked with people about to get married and taught them the skills for a successful marriage.

As a woman, I know what I want and I know what my women friends want.  And I can tell you what those things are and how they can be acheived.

I have been married a total of 36 years and I have a lot of experience knowing how quickly a marriage can disintegrate and what it takes to repair it.